Yesterday we were at dinner with a couple that he is a friend of my husband. They have no children and it seems no intention to have them if they change their minds. We stayed with them sometimes and she falls quite well but yesterday was a moment that I pull on my nerves.
Upon arrival at my house while my husband and his friend did something that had to do we did not stay in the room with the child. My son was watching TV too close so I called him and he ignored me, I called him and not listen to me and the third time I called I jump it with a tone that most ill-mannered child you have: Do not get much attention Is not it? ". As for my son take the opposite then turned around and came with me. But I annoying tone he said it.
After we come to the mall for dinner. Nothing more to get my son for a moment that still ran out and when I called for him not to go too far and was lost among the people began to walk around a column but not to come. Her words: "From Of course you will not do nothing of the case. "My only thing I got was" listen to me when I have to do, all that happens is the two years. "
Then we went to dinner and child behaved great. At first he was painting, when they brought her dinner and then dined quietly been playing with a toy that I brought. Finally I brought a balloon and as we have done in the past started playing him in the head with him to his father. Like almost throw a cup on the table said, "Be careful you're going to pull something." And then she tells my husband, "is that right now are not acting as a father." I left there and pictures. So my husband was not acting as a father because he left the child playing with a balloon.
I told them that we ask for the account that the child was tired and "me too".
I felt totally judged by a mother who does not know anything like as children. It made me feel as if I educate my son and this do what he wants. As a child it always wants to do what he wants, sometimes we leave and when we think something can not be because he does not leave. Certainly not always do what you want without any limit as suggested on several occasions. Has the limits that we as parents think that has to have at his age.
My son is a child not for a moment. Whenever you go somewhere with him you must be a hundred eyes because there is still and misleads you in a second. I understand that there are children who go to the quieter side of his parents and do not move but fortunately or unfortunately my son does not. But I do not like to judge me because my child is restless and have to go after him more than other parents have to go with their children. Of course, when watching TV does not listen to anyone but I do so is a brat. And of course if you're sitting at a dining table can pull something when after half an hour and starts playing with his father and a balloon but I do not think that my husband is worse father.
Ultimately we educate our son thinking that we are doing well. There will always be those who think that what we do best and if anyone thinks that we do worse. I do not want a person is branded as not raise me well for my child based on two hours has been with us one day. Furthermore, it is started within five minutes.
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